The House that Built Me

I’ve been meaning to write this for years now, and I’ve finally felt that I’m in the right place in my life to tell it. This is one of my favorite bride stories:

A bride named Nikki was referred to me by one of my favorite venues, a cowboy themed ranch in the hills of Corona. She loved my videos and web content and was adamant about booking the venue and having me as part of her big day. She was incredibly sweet over email and phone, and even sent me an adorable photo of herself and Keith, her fiance. This personal touch really made her stand out. People can be incredibly impersonal and defensive, and I suppose they have a right to be when shopping in our industry, which at times seems to be full of blood sucking sales people.

I made a custom contract with discounts for being Organ Donors (that’s a good sign) and awaited her signature and retainer. A few days pass and she gets back to me telling me that she and her FH had decided to not hold the wedding at the ranch, but instead to hold it at her house, and she also asked for a meeting. I went to meet with Nikki and Keith at their home which was a few miles from my apartment. What I found was a salt of the earth, hard working couple who just bought a fixer-upper in a humble neighborhood.

Holding back the tears noticeably forming in her eyes, Nikki tells me that for the cost of the venue, they could repave their driveway of their home, and though it killed her to sacrifice her dream wedding day, they had decided that it would be best to start off their lives one step ahead, making improvements to the house.

I was utterly floored by this revelation. I knew how much the ranch meant to her from the conversation I had with her days ago, and for her to put her future as a mother to the children who will grow up in this home first, really spoke to me. We created a new contract based on the changes and I went back to the office on a high.

When I got to my computer to follow up, I was reminded of a Miranda Lambert song called the House That Built Me. The second verse goes like this:

“Mama cut out pictures of houses for years.
From ‘Better Homes and Garden’ magazines.
Plans were drawn, and concrete poured,
And nail by nail and board by board
Daddy gave life to mama’s dream.”

This song was already 3 years old by this time, but whenever it came on the radio, this verse would make me cry (and it still does). I become nostalgic for a past that I never had. To me, it describes the values that the people in our country had, once upon a time. Fathers worked hard to give their wives the homes they wanted so that their children could grow up strong and moral. Things are different now. Just as the middle eight goes:

“You leave home, you move on and you do the best you can.
I got lost in this old world and forgot who I am.”

I feel that we’ve lost our way as a society, chasing after bigger and shinier things for pleasure and status. To meet a young couple in their twenties, especially in Orange County, that intrinsically understood what ultimately mattered to them made me really reconsider the life that I wanted for myself.

Needless to say, this was one of the most memorable weddings I had DJed, and the only regret is that it was on a Friday before another wedding that weekend, so I couldn’t stay longer when they wanted to keep the party going. Nikki and Keith are by far, one of my most memorable couples.

If you’ve never heard the song, buckle up, and listen to the words closely:

Newland Barn Wedding DJ Video

It’s easy to adore your clients when they are adorable! Such a pleasure to serve Aimee & Shawn on their big day, and very memorable time working with Emily from, the Roaming Hunger food trucks and of course one of my favorite venues, the Newland Barn in Huntington Beach.
video by Triptych Weddings

And here’s another wedding video from a wedding at Newland Barn.

Fitzgerald’s Flowers took some awesome photo’s too!

Serra Plaza Wedding DJ Video

Serra Plaza Wedding: Richard + Christina Highlight Film from TrumpetBird Productions on Vimeo.

Christina & Richard is a thoughtful and kind pair, and I knew during our first meeting that it was a great match! You can really see from the video, how enamored they are with each other! I was fortunate to work for them, and at Serra Plaza, a Spanish mission style courtyard down the street from the Mission San Juan Capistrano, CA Thank you also to the very graceful Ann from Seafood World for always being on top of coordination! It’s always a treat to work with you!
Video by TrumpetBird Productions – Thank you for putting in the audio from the ceremony, you made my microphones sound great!

Here’s some awesome photos by Wai Reyes!

Huntington Beach, CA